46 in a relationship

They're not directly connected. Pairs like this are often drawn to each other precisely because of their differences.

The Four and the Six often discover similar traits in each other. The Four can be just as worried as the Six, and the Six feels the same universal sadness as the Four. Rather than dividing them, this strengthens the relationship. Because they stand together in sorrow, they also share great emotional victories.

Their view of the world is similar, but their motivation differs. The Six feels like an outsider who fears persecution. The Four fears being misunderstood and abandoned. They're united by a similar fate and by the creativity that drives people who feel different. They protect each other in the careful way that grows between people who have weathered something together.

• Honesty and emotional openness.
• The Six brings loyalty, the Four brings depth.
• Both are loyal and can hold the other up in hard times.

• Both can be anxious and moody.
• In worse moments, they blame each other for how they feel.
• Both tend toward worst-case scenarios.

Both can think catastrophically, and paradoxically that drives them to act. Bold Fours and Sixes who push against their fear come alive in risky projects. The more cautious versions of both strategies, on the other hand, stick to a safe spot out of the spotlight.