36 in a relationship

They're connected by an arrow: strategy 3 moves toward strategy 6 in growth. Strategy 6 therefore often embodies what someone with strategy 3 needs to develop.

They're connected by an arrow: strategy 6 moves toward strategy 3 under stress. That's why someone with strategy 6 easily recognizes their own worse days in strategy 3.

This pair isn't common, and its success depends on how it handles the tension between performance and the fear of performance. For the Three, the key word is "stop." Stopping and talking about the relationship stirs up fears about their own worth. For the Six, the key word is "go": toward success, toward joy, toward trusting their partner.

They're connected by an arrow: the Three carries hidden doubts, and the Six is stressed by performance. So they can help each other in a very fundamental way.

• The Three brings energy and confidence, the Six depth and honesty.
• The Six teaches the Three self-reflection and loyalty.
• The Three teaches the Six to trust themselves more and move forward.

• The Six questions image and success, the very things the Three builds on.
• The Three wants to encourage the Six, and the Six sees it as a trap or a test.
• The Six sees the Three's demeanor as bragging.

The most natural division: the Six comes up with original ideas and looks for weak spots, the Three promotes and sells them. The Six can stick with a controversial idea long enough to see it through. The Three can sense the market and package the idea so it catches on.