For Couples

How the two of you work together

Why do you keep arguing about the same things? Why does one of you need to talk while the other needs a moment of quiet? The Couples Guide shows how each of you is wired and what you can do about it together.

Take the test and invite your partner 2× free Quick Test · a Couples Guide for the two of you from €8

Already have your result? Open it and create the invitation underneath.

What you both get out of it

You'll stop taking it personally

You'll see why the other person reacts the way they do. Their silence, or their pushing, often isn't aimed at you—it's their strategy.

You'll recognize the loop you fall into

Every couple has its own typical argument that keeps repeating. The guide describes it and shows where you can step out of it.

Each of you gets your own playbook

The advice isn't generic. Some of it is for you, some for your partner, depending on each person's strategy and subtype.

You'll have a shared language

Instead of “you always…”, you can say “that's my Seven talking”. Hard conversations get easier that way.

For you

You'll understand what your partner needs, even when they don't say it
You'll find out how you're unknowingly hurting them
You'll get advice tailored to your strategy

For your partner

Their own test result, free
They'll finally understand why you do what you do
Advice for their side of the relationship

See what the guide says about the two of you

Choose your strategy and subtype, and your partner's. We'll show you the start of the text written for your exact pair. Don't know your strategy? Find out in the test.

You Partner

For Couples

Self-preservation Eight and social Nine

This might be how it looks for you

The Eight decides and the Nine gives in to keep the peace.
The Eight decides, the Nine nods and then quietly does it their own way.
A bored Eight can stir up even a calm day, just to make something happen.

Why it's like that and what to do about it—you'll find that in the guide.

Take the test and invite your partner

How it works

1
Take the test
The short test takes about 10 minutes. You create the invitation under your result.
2
Send the link to your partner
They take the test on their own, whenever it suits them. They get their own result too.
3
Read the guide together
Once you both have your results, the guide for your pair is ready. You'll both see it.

What the other person sees

Only your strategy and subtype. Not your answers, percentages, or the rest of your result.

How much it costs

Both tests are free. The Couples Guide costs €10, or €8 with the Full Analysis. Only the person sending the invitation pays, and only once the guide is ready.

Frequently asked questions

Is it only for couples?

It's written for partners. It also works for two people who live together or are planning to.

Do both of us have to pay?

No. Only the person inviting pays. You'll both see the guide.

What if I already have the Full Analysis?

You create the invitation under that result, and you get the Couples Guide at a lower price.

Will the guide tell us whether we belong together?

No. No pair is good or bad in advance. The guide shows where you understand each other, where you miss each other, and what to do about it.

Find out how the two of you work together

Each of you takes the test separately. The guide then shows what draws you to each other, where you miss each other, and how to understand each other better.