24 in a relationship

They're connected by an arrow: strategy 2 moves towards strategy 4 in growth. Strategy 4 therefore often embodies what someone with strategy 2 needs to develop.

They're connected by an arrow: strategy 4 moves towards strategy 2 under stress. That's why someone with strategy 4 easily recognises their own worse days in strategy 2.

Both strategies belong to the same centre (heart centre), so they deal with a similar theme, each in its own way.

The Two and the Four are connected by an arrow, and both know the "pull in and push away" pattern. When their partner is available, they withdraw; when the partner disappears, they want them back. The result is an intriguing romantic tango. Both appreciate that the other can feel. At last there's a chance to meet fully in feelings.

In the Four, the Two sees an amplified version of their own emotional story: someone who puts feelings first and isn't ashamed of them. The Four appreciates the Two's ability to win people over, but the Two's flattery and flirting can strike them as shallow.

• A deep emotional connection and romance without awkwardness.
• The Two brings care, the Four brings depth and authenticity.
• Both understand emotions and aren't afraid to show them.

• The Two gives and waits; the Four is absorbed in themselves.
• The Four sees the Two's care as shallow or intrusive.
• Both can be moody and resentful.

At work, they care about the atmosphere. The Four wants to be exceptional and the Two cultivates relationships, so an environment grows around them where people know each other and take an interest in one another. For both, that's motivation, not a waste of time.