9 Strategies

Strategies in a relationship

How do the individual strategies get along? Pick a pair and find out what draws them together, where the friction is, and what helps. This applies to romantic relationships, friendships and working together. No combination is inherently good or bad: a lot depends on how healthily each person in the pair is functioning.

Pick a pair

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For couples: the two of you, specifically

The pairing descriptions below apply in general. The Couples Guide goes deeper: you both take the Quick Test, and the guide also takes your subtypes into account. We've prepared 378 combinations (45 pairs of strategies, each with variants based on both of your subtypes), so you're reading a text written specifically for your pairing. You'll find out where you get stuck, how to understand your partner, and what helps the two of you in particular.

Invite your partner

Your relationship in three steps

Each of you takes the test separately. We combine the results into a Couples Guide just for the two of you.