13 in a relationship

They're not directly connected. Pairs like this are often drawn to each other precisely because of their differences.

The One and the Three are a good energetic match. Both are active, care about how they come across, and identify with their work. They enjoy exercising, planning, fixing up the house, or going to events together. Each is proud of the other's achievements.

The One admires the Three's energy and ability to get ahead; the Three admires the One's reliability and principles. But both tend to mistake shared activities for closeness. A weekend just for the two of them, with no tasks, does them a world of good.

• A strong work ethic and shared goals.
• The One brings quality; the Three brings pace and results.
• Both are reliable, organized, and productive.

• The One sees the Three's shortcuts and self-presentation as dishonest.
• The Three sees the One as slow and nitpicky.
• The One wants to look right; the Three wants to look good. That's an easy place to clash.

The Three gets things done; the One gets them done right. It's a clash of quantity versus quality. As a boss, the Three launches several projects at once, delegates, and moves on. As an employee, the One stops and looks for a plan, because without one they can't move forward. When the Three takes the One's thoroughness for granted, the underappreciated One slows down.